She Calls Me Daily but Won't Go Out
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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Male
I met this girl at school and I really like her. We have been friends for about 6 months now. She calls me everyday and we talk for about 1-2hrs.
Normally I would think she likes me but after asking many of times I have only been able to get her to hang out with me 2 times. Also she tells me about guys that hit on her and ex boyfriends. When one of her exs called I made the comment "that must of made you happy" and she said no not that one. On the other hand he asked her to go back out with him or for that matter just to see him and she said she couldn't do that.
It is 3am and I can't sleep this is eating at me. She knows I like her what should I think? Does she like me more than a friend? Is there anything I can do besides what I have already done?? Please help
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Male
don;t be to hung up on trying to be her friend. She will walk all over like a doormat. Go out, meet other girls, but keep in touch with this girl. Trying to impress her constantly is too needy and will only and forever make you her friend.
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