We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions.
Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I've been hanging out with this guy for over a month now. He's a senior and I'm a sophomore in highschool. We were never officially "dating" even though we both wanted to. I'm really shy and sort of intimidated by his past relationships, since i've never even had a boyfriend. Anyway, I wrote him a letter explaining how I felt and that I wanted to take things slow. Since then he hasn't responded and it's been over a week. He won't return my calls or text messages. He's been hanging out with other girls lately too. When I see him around, he smiles and sometimes waves at me like everything is normal. He won't communicate with me at all, and I don't know how to read him. I really like him, and he knows this, but I'm not sure if the feeling is mutual anymore. Please tell me what you think of this situation, Thanks.
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
You saying you want to take things slow in a boys logic is saying I dont want us to proceed in this relationship I just want to become friends with you.
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