He Says he Doesn't Trust Me
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Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
My boyfriend and I have been on and off for over 2 years. He's been acting kind of strange the last few months so I finally tried to sit down with him and talk. All he told me was that he just feels like in the long run that he couldn't trust me but couldn't answer "Why?" He also said he's been feeling this way for a while that's why he's been going off and doing things without me.
When I ask him where he's been, he just always says nowhere. He said he tells me that because the things he does aren't a big deal. I really love him with all my heart and this was the person I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. I have no way of getting a hold of him (unless I catch him while he's home, if he even stays home). I don't want to lose him. Is it me, did he find someone new, what is it? I don't know if there's anything left for me to get him back and make him happy with me? If I've really lost him, then how do I get over him? Please help me.
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female
Leave him girl ... 2 years and still he doesnt trust... whatever.
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