How to attract a boy



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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
yeah well i just wrote to you, and ill paste my old entry here and your response.

ok, for starters, im 13. and theres this guy i like, but i never told him. hes really nice and stuff, but i knew he would never like me cause im not pretty and stuff. the thing is, i told a lot of people about him and someobdy i hated found out, but he said he would be quiet. but yesterday my friend said to the guy i like that she knows someobdy who liked him. he said yeah and then my name. then my friend was surprised that he knew, but she pretended like she was just shocked that i liked him. she said she likes you? and he said yeah. my friend said she was talking about someone else. she asked if he would go out with me, and he said im a good person but he doesnt want to go out with me. i was afraid that when he found out, he'd think i was weird or be embarrassed and things would be akward between us, but i guess hes known about it for a while and hes been acting normally. so what do i do now? i really like him and want to out with him, but he doesnt. help!!!

now heres what you wrote:

First thing to do is to make friends with him.

Doing this is pretty easy. All you have to do is greet him everyday
whenever you meet him in the hallway. Look him in the eyes and say in a
clear voice "Hi" plus his name, and give him a big smile.

Keep doing this until you feel comfortable enough to ask him how is
doing and later on chatting with him. If he is a nice person he will be
sure to like the attention you are giving him. Then you could ask him
out.

well the problem is that WE ARE FRIENDS. like we talk a lot in our classes and have interesting discussions. so we are friends, but as you can see above, he just doesnt like me. any suggestions?




User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
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you know the funny thing is that something similar happend to me.except i didnt know the guy.what i learned personally is to move on.if that boy dont love u by know, then he will never ever never ever love u.its kind of messed up.but you'll get use to it.trust me.lol.im working on this one guy now..i'll notify you about how that goes.and dont hang on to a guy unless he does like you.but dont worry .. who ever that guy is..he's missing out on a lot.i am not that popular,im definately athletic, i just started taking care of my hair this yeAr, im pretty much funny, and im working on being more popular.but never change completely.unless its for a good cause.like being nicer or looking prettier.thats all i have to say so far..and Good Luck!

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