I fell in love with a married woman....help
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Original Visitor's Question from a 51-60 year old Male
I just need some simple advice...maybe it's just a kick in the head..............I have been divorced for 7 years.
I fell in love with a married woman and she fell in love with me. We made plans regularly (weekly) to meet and do things we both love to do. It was amazing....like we were made for each other. This lasted 6 months and we became best freinds. But as of a month ago she started feeling quilty. And now she has stated she wants to try to work on her marriage.
I know what love is. I know what right and wrong is. I feel horrible that I allowed myself to fall in love with a woman who is not available. I should have been smarter than that. But it happen and I can't say that given the chance to go back and stop it I would. I really love this woman. I am sick and my chest feels empty. My heart is broken........
What do I do to cope? We do have some communication but I think it's not helping me to heal. She has said that if her marriage doesnt work out I would be the first to know. But I know it's not smart to "wait" for her. But I can't stop thinking about her........
Just tell me some basic methods to cope with this problem. I cry several times a day. My heart is broken and I feel I lost the love of my life.
User Submitted Advice from a 31-40 year old Female
She always calls
I am going though an issue similar to this situations. A police officer had gotten my sister's phone number from my emergrncy list. They had been cheating behind my brother-in-laws back. Now I go to a colleg where he is employeed their. I had caught many times my sister their in his jobs events. My ssiter has two daugters each of them have sifferent father and been married twice. He knew my sister is married. In this situations the police officer knew my sister is married. She loves her husband very much. Maybe I should of have not given the department my emergrency list. Then he would not be cheating. I had told I will never except the police officers as a brother-in-law. My brother-in-law will always be my sister's husband. Now my sisiter is in Chicago and I bet he is with her. She made up lyes it is a job training session in chiago. I do not by it. she had done this to her first husband with the guy she is married now to. Why break marriage up. my sister has a good life with her husband.
One advice George she always calls you and you do not call her. Good relationships always both partners calls each others for better relationships. Why is it always her calling all the time? Meaning she loves her husband.
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