He means so much to me! Plz help!
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Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
I have been knowin my ex for 3yrs and have been broken up for a year. We have been dating and we still love each other very much. Ever since we broke up i have trying and doing everything i can to get him back. He still tells me he loves me and acts like were a couple when we go out and even tells his friends that we are. I would love for him to give us another shot but he jus wont do it. He has given me every excuse even got with someone else but they broke up 3 mnths ago. I dont knw what to say or do anymore i wanna give up but something is tellin me not to. I dont know what to do. Should i jus move on?? I really dont wanna give up on him but i cant take this pain it hurts so bad and its like he doesnt care. He calls me everyday and everynite and tells me he loves me before we hang up. I dont understand this,mixed signals and he tells me he doesnt know what he wants wheneva i bring us up. Please help ASAP!!!! I love him so much and i just want my baby back. He means the world to me.
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female
Told him the truth
Hey George! Thank you so much for your advice. I told him how much it hurts me and that i didnt want to deal with him anymore and he says that he loves me and wants to be with me. As i was tellin him about he stops me and says whats sad about it is that i was planning to do somethin for your bday. I asked what was he gonna and it was somethings i have always wanted for my bday especially my 21st. I told him i needed space to think about things. But now i just feel like im wasting my time and i just want better for myself i dont want all this pain that hes putting me through. But i love him so much and i have never felt this strongly about anyone for three years. He keeps asking me to wait for him,but it will be a year next month,a week before my bday. And what he said he wanted to do for bday is so sweet and romantic. What do i do??
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