Me, longterm boyfriend and my crush
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Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
I'm 25 and have been in a long term relationship for almost six years. My boyfriend and I live together he is fabulous and I love him to death. He's sweet, he's fun, and he makes me laugh all the time. He is my favorite person.
But I have this crush, and it's driving me crazy. It's weird, but I am mentally attracted to him and he's wonderful too.
I feel terrible about this and I would never cheat on my boyfriend, but I don't think I'm ready for the next step. I don't want to breakup with him because it would ruin everything. He's the guy you marry, but I'm not ready yet.
What do I do?
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Male
Ok....if you say you love your boyfriend like you say you do then this crush shouldn't hinder your feeling for your man but there is also another thing...you say you will never cheat on your boyfriend but what if this guy you like makes a move one you i dont think you will resist...but in order to avoid that type of situation then you need to stay as far as possible from the man you have a crush on or never be alone with him because little do you know men can sense when a gurl likes them its a sensor we have and he just might like you back......but my advice to you is be strong because your boyfriend loves you and if you cheat on him and break his heart the same will happen to you seven folds
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