what should i do next to keep him interested
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Original Visitor's Question from a 41-50 year old Female
there is this guy at uni whom i like. I started smiling and saying hi to him and he also started saying hi whenever he sees me. I saw him today at the cafe in uni and there were some girls sittting next to him and because there was no other chairs nearby it was easier for me to just go and sit next to him. I started talking to him and asked him what he studies, where he is from and he tooo asked about me. However one of his friends came and sat near him and started talking to him. I felt uncomfortable and left. i think he understood that i felt shy because of his friend and as i was leaving he looked at me and gave me a smile. I would really like to get closer to him and have his phone number. I think there is also another girl at uni who is interested with him,. She would go and sit next to him and also ask him for help with her studies (she does translation studies while he is doing management course) What should i do to make him interested with me. Should i go again to talk when i see him again or will he think i am too easy and desperate.Or should i wait for him.How can i make this frienship go on to relationship. Please help.
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
Play it cool
hey I really feel that if he want that to that he would come and talk to you don't be in a hurry to start conversation play hard to get but play it cool and allow him to approach you don't fall over him especially wit convo
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