I'm in love with a friend who gives me mixed messages
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I've read all the information on how to get close to a friend etc and i've found that i actually already do a lot of these things. For example, we spend a lot of time alone and she described me as one of her 'closest friends'.
The problem is that she sends me confusing messages as to wether she likes me or not. E.g. she shared with me a very deep secret that she's told no one, she laughs at my jokes, she invites me out to cafes and to her house after to school (admittedly for work but we ended up messing around) and she said that she was about to go mad before she met me and was so glad to have done so.
Unfortunately, she also insults me frequetly and refuses (in a non-verbal way) to body contact above a pat on the shoulder. We used to have more body contact but after we became close friends this lessoned. She very rarely hugs any guys that aren't in a relationship but hugs her girlfriends all the time.
Does she like me?
And if so how should i introduce more body contact?
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Male
dont tell her that you are worried because of the reason that she doesnt let you to touch her.........just continue it as it is going....and in the interval of few days....try to show that you care for her veri brilliantly
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