I like her, she likes me and her bf

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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
OK there's this girl and i really, really like her. ive had a crush on her for like a year. but now we live really close and we hang out and stuff. she is always flirting with me and stuff, and i want to ask her out, but she has a boyfriend and i would really like some advice on what to do now.

User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female

i am in the same situation. i like a girl and she has a gf but her gf treats her terribly. as far as i know she does not like her gf as much as she did when she first got with her. what i am doing is getting to know her and ignoring the fact she has a gf, although its hard sometimes. you need to share how you feel so there is still an interest present, that way they know how you feel and are trying. when she breaks up with her gf, i will give her time, but she will know there is a connection between you two. just don't rush. thats the worst thing you can do. don't be pushy just persistant. hope that helps. ~Ashley~

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