Likes two girls
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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Male
I have been with my girlfriend for almost a year and lately I have been starting to like this other girl. Me and my girlfriend have been through alot and I love her very very much. But sometimes I think about how this other girl and I would be if we got together and there are times where I think I connect more with this girl than my girlfriend. I tried forgeting about her and focusing on my girlfriend but it doesn't really work. What should I do? Should I tell them? I don't want to hurt my girlfriend because she cares about me dearly and I'm not even sure if the other girl likes me back.
User Submitted Advice from a unknown year old Female
ok well think of it this way, it really wouldnt be fair to jsut dump your g/f like that for soemone you dont even know. what if your g/f did that to you? how would you feel? no offense but that is a pretty crummy thing to do. I think its okay to think of other girls but jsut not to like them and stuff and I know you cant help that but who do you want to be remebered as?
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