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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Male
Me and my girlfriend have been together for almost a year and 2 months and we always fight now. I am 15 and she is 14. We both have a big jealousy problem and i have a short temper. We both say we are gonna fix our problems but it never works and i need help. I want this relationship to work but we are always fighting (about who they were with or what happened at school, did you do this, did you do that, are cheating on me, you dont like the way i dance, and i just like to have fun thats the way i am kind of deals). I want us to work because she is very important to me and i dont know how to fix it. please help me out i cant afford to lose her
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
Makes me want to cry
im the same with my boyfriend, we've been together for 3 years. he doesnt really get jealous but he's so social. all these girls always come up to him at school in the hallways and it makes me want to cry but i cant because he thinks my jealousy is something i should have complete control over. i wish he would support me and try to work WITH me insteand of saying he never does anything wrong...
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