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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
im a 16 year old armenian. my taste in everythng is different from other girls. i have a very big problem, and for this entire year, my life has revolved around this problem. i was dating this armenian rabiz guy.. tall dark handsome..PERFECT! but we broke up. his friends would aways flirt with me, but i would always ignore it..but one of his friends caught my eye big time!
we were talking for about 4-5 months and he was just like my previous guy, except he was really mysterious and always played hard to get. after 6 months he STILL didnt ask me to be his gf but he was also best friends with my neighbor suprisingly so i saw him all the time, and we would really flirt with eachother, but enough is enough. i thought to my self if hes not going to ask me out then screw him.. so i did. i dont know if i did the right thing though. anyways, i started talking to this other guy and he was also gorgeous and tall. and i like him a lotttt. we started talking on myspace then on aim, and we know the same people but we go to different schools. at first he would be the one to IM me first, then it was me who IMed him first. i kinda took that as a sign that he didnt like me. but wen i wud go first we wud talk for hours and i thought that meant he liked me. but sometimes wen i IM him the conversation just comes to a stop and he doesnt try to continue it and that shows to me that he doesnt like me... my cousin is good friends with him and she arranged for us to go out as a group next week, and i dont know if he likes me or not so i dont know how to act around him...
im realllly lost:(
how do i make him like me?
how can i tell if he does?
how should i act around him?
should i continue the convo when it stops?
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Male
Flirt with him
if ur armenia then ur hot toooo.
just flirt with him a lot nd he'lll like u
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