How do I show her that I love her?
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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Male
There is this girl I love at school. I have been loving her for years now and you won't beleive that I have never talked to her.As they say, love secrets don't last for long somehow everyone at school knows it. One of my friends asked what she thinks of me and she said that I give her mixed expressions and that she finds it really hard to understand me. If you ask me right now I know that she feels the same way that I do but because of my attitude she thinks that I and my friends are just joking. I don't know how but I would like to show her that what I truly feel. I tried talking to her but words don't come out right, sometimes i wonder perhaps I should write to her but then wouldn't that be cowardness.
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Male
Just talk to her
Like George said, writing is never cowardly. It seems like it because it is easier and only between you and her but it isn't.
I wrote this girl I like telling her I liked her on Myspace and on Facebook and since then I have been noticing she sneaks a peak at me. Previously I had put a note in her locker after school, one that told her my locker number so she would find out who I was almost instantly, the next day I felt like a complete idiot but during class felt worse when her friends and her came behind me and one of her friends rubbed her hand across my back then calling my name to say 'hi' after that class. After class that day I asked the girl I liked about her friend and the tone in her voice and the feel of the conversation indicated that something was working in my favor.
I encourage you to just talk to her. Start with something simple like talking about what happened in class or in the halls or something like that.
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