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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Ive been working at my local shop for 2 years now and about a year later this girl started to work here as well. I was aware she was here working with me, i said hi to her when I started my shift. I never had any feelings for her but until now. I know she had a boyfriend, but i dont know if she has got one now. Ive never had a convosation with her, she has asked me a few questions but i get scared when answering her and just give her 1 word answers. Now these last couple of weeks i keep catching her looking at me, so i smile at her and then quickly get back to work. I also get butterflies when i stand next to her and i feel sick but excited at the same time. So how do i cheak to see if she has a boyfriend (without sounding desprarate) and to see if she likes me as much as i like her?
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Male
Mowing another man's lawn
Before smiling and looking into her eyes deal.I would find out if she has a boyfriend first.Myself as a man I would not like it if some guy that had a crush on my girls would be looking and smiling at my girl.(Just out of respect).That just might instegate some drama you dont want.Say something a guy would say.Say you like working on cars how about your boyfriend.Then you would know your not mowing another mans lawn.
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