I'm Trying to get Better to Get my Ex Back
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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female
Everyday I spend much of my energy thinking of ways to
get my ex boyfriend back. We have been apart for over
three months & I have been working out, dieting, writing
letters, making cds, (not sending) in hopes of getting back together. I miss him. We broke up on bad terms & avoided each other for a while but the distance has made me see that I really screwed up. I worry that all this focus is unhealthy but I can't stop. To make things a little more complicated, I now am dating another, whom I like, but do not have the same passion for as the ex. Bummer hey?
Should I call & face the great possability that he wants nothing to do with me? Should I just try to "bump into" him somewhere & test his reaction? Send A cd (his b-day is right around the corner)? And as pathetic as it sounds I know i should break it off with the new guy but I don't want to be completely alone.
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
Just plain stupid
I agree with the advice ya'll have it's never good to try and change yourself just because you are trying to get him back, because if he can't except you for who you are then he is just plain stupid!
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