I am confused! HELP!
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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female
I am very confused. I like this boy. For the first two weeks that I started to like him, he suddenly knew that I liked him. So he pretended to get close to me, I thought that he liked me but that was his way of telling me that he knew. But I took it the wrong way and asked my friend to ask him if he had feelings for me. He flatly and harshly said no but after that, he always stares at me for quite a while and it has been going on for quite some time. For example, he always sits close to me and he always looks at me to see if I'm looking at him. And he's very nice to me but after a few days, he always stops and flirts with other girls. But after that, he's my friend again. And he gets very jealous.
At the last day of school, he was really really nice and he was always staring at me. So I'm pretty confused, does he like me or what? Everybody doesn't think so but I do, I feel like he does by the way he stares or by the way he is to me. I have no idea, HELP ME!
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Male
Talk to him
Its always hard to tell if sum1 likes u or not. i am a guy so if this guys anything like me he probably kinda has feelings for u and would like to go out with u but he's not certain how u still feel about him. alot the stuff u described him doing (sitting nxt to u etc)is just a guys way of trying to work u out. Either that or he was really embarressed when ur freind talked to him and so he defensively said no lol. Like i said it is always hard to tell...sorry but the only way u will really know is talk to him urself, dont get freinds to do it for u. i mean whats the worst that can happen right? lol wish u luck
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