We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions.
Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Sorry, this is a follow up question. I met this girl like about a month ago online and we text or talk every night and we saw a movie and we listened to some live poetry together together and we're going to college together next year, and you guys (George, thankyou by the way) said I should ask her to be my girlfriend....
which I was going to do, but then one of my friends pointed out I should'nt because he knows me really well and said I was doing it cause I wanted us to develop our relationship quicker cause I'm impatient (in nicer terms)....I told him I'd think about it
....but then i realized I'm trying to speed up the level of our relationship cause I'm afraid we won't be as close when school starts cause she'll meet cooler people when we get to college... that's what's happened with every other girl i've met...
she's gonna be my first friend in college and i don't want to mess that up before it has time to reach it's full potential, but i also like her and it's confusing me so much......
Sorry to bother you again...and thankyou for the useful advice...I'm sorry there was'nt as much to work with in my first post..
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
Ask the girl. she might also have feelings for you. take the chance.. because you might regret at the end.
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