Am I Too Much For HIm??
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Well I really hope that you can help me because I'm so confused right now. I've been with my boyfriend for almost two years now, and we've never really had any significant problems, and we've never had any intimacy problems.. it seems anywa. A few months ago it started to seem like he was kinda withdrawing. I asked him why it seemed like he didn't want to kiss me anymore, and why his hugs had changed and he replied "I don't like the way people see us now", but before it wasn't a problem. and then a second time he said "we kiss so much it's not even special anymore". It was kinda stranged to me, and it seems like he's so wishy washy about it. Whether we're in public or not sometimes he kisses me, sometimes he doesnt, sometimes he grabs my hand sometimes not, sometimes he'll pull me close and hold me there.. and sometimes he'll push me away. I'm not sure what to make of this. It just seems like whatever his mood is he'll go with it, sometimes he'll fall asleep with me in him arms all night, and sometimes his back to me. I've been trying to figure out what this has been about for a while, but it doesn't really make sense to me. He tells me he loves me no matter what though, without question. I know that should be enough but i'm starting to wonder if i'm scaring him off, or if i'm just too affectionate for him. And any time I've tried to adress it, he becomes really offended... For example he'll half ass a kiss and then I'll ask for a real one and he becomes really upset saying "That was a real one!" Is there any way I can adress this? Or is it just the way he is? I'm so confused, and as petty as this is, it just kinda hurts my feelings sometime with the rejection..
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Male
Sit him down
tell him to become a man and own up to his misstake.... and you need too sit him down and and say something or u tell him its over!
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