Bisexual problems.?? i'm a teen(14)
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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female
ok I'm a high School student and i'm only 14 years old, but my problems go way beyond my age. I recently found out that i am in fact a bisexual, and dealing with that by it self hasnt been as easy. But the hard part is that i am in love with a girl that i think doesnt feel the same way. We went on this camping trip, and we had slept together (this is how i found out that i was bi) at the time she had a girlfriend, and she planned to brake up with her when we got back, but she didnt. and i'm so hurt because of it, When her girl friend found out that she cheated she left her. Leaving me the space i wanted in her life WRONG, i dont think she wants me to be MORE than friends, even though she tells me not to give up on her because she LIKES ME ALOT. am I supposed to wait for her to stop loving her ex? I am in love with this girl, but she has a reputation of TURNING GIRLS GAY, alot of chicks in my scholl like her, and she flirts with everyone. Even with my best friend, like right in front of my face, It's so hard, especially since i have all these felings for her. I feel as though she used me..HELP PLEASE SCHOOL IS ALMOST OVER AND I DONT HAVE ALOT OF TIME!!
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
hi im 14 too and have the same porblem exept the girl i love is my best friend and has been the since the 3rd grade and i don't want to loss her friendship over these feelings.My advice would be if your talking to her now get close become good friends then one day when you two are best friends breing up a convo about bi girls and see what she does and says if shes ok with bi girls tell her that you are i can't get you any farther the rest is you!
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