What should I do?
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I have a classmate, we're quite close friends(she told me some of her secrets and shared her feelings...)she kept flirting with me but didn't forget to add something funny so I wasn't sure if she meant it or not. A friend of mine told me that she does this when she's interested but won't make the first step. One night, we were chating on the internet and I said something romantic she asked me to do or write or whatever something else romantic for her so I sent her a song(Brad Paisley- She's everything)after I saw her reaction I was so SURE she would give me a chance! But then she add :"You didn't mean it, did you?" I couldnt help and said:" Sure I did!" she apologized that she didn't explain what she meant when asked me for something romantic, she wanted to remain friends but after a short conversation I guessed she tried to say something like:" Not today but who knows what will happen in a few months?(maybe we'll be dating...)" Now I really feel that if I didn't rush she would give me a chance in the future.
She said me a few times that I'm a romantic person(I did my best to be) and that my girlfriend will be really happy with me and won't let me go...
So my question is there still a chance?(I'm not the type to just let go) If yes, what should I do?
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Male
Told her how I felt
Hey man im kinda going throught that same thing..this girl is so great..i told her how i felt about her and stuff and im not sure if it was the right thing,i was afraid that maybe i shoulda waited cuz usually i seems like if you tell a girl how you feel they think its 'to easy' to get you and dont want you..but iv realized that its paid off..shes a relaly good christain girl..im trying to get her the best i can,hope it works..ill pray for you though man i hope it goes well..God bless
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