i like this guy...and i'm not sure if he likes me
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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female
i like this guy...and i'm not sure if he likes me. we have a lot in common like music. we have a lot of fun around each other ....like when he asks me if i wanna go and do something with him. like one day we went bowling with his lil brother and my lil sister. well, there were these hot guys in the lane next to ours and well everytime i bowled good one hot guy would give me a high five. well when i went to go sit by the guy i like he pulled my chair closer to him. As if to say "hey, your not gonna take her away from me". after that we went to barnes and nobles and just sat there and read and talked to each other. i had the best time!!! but a few days later i went to his house and we were alone (nothing happened) but we were laying on the couch together and he puts his arm around me and kinda cuddles me. Also, i asked him what he thought of me as and he said... i think your cool.. but i wish that there was more stuff we could do...other than going to a movie or something. but after that he asked me to give him a hug before he left so i did.. and i let go..but he says...i didnt say stop. so i hugged him again. he came over later on that night and we sat by each other and started holding hands. i think he likes me but i dont know if he's just playing with my mind. everyone i talk to about him says he doesnt do that. i wish he would just come out and say it. i dont know what i should do..as in...ask him if he likes me...or just keep it cool and play hard to get. Its sooo frustrating!!! please help me!!! i need to know.. sorry this is so long!!!
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female
hi it is no my business but i started dating at fourteen now i am not out to save the world but i would like to GOD WILLING spare the next generations pain and anguish i was BLESSED to go through i would say they don't need to be spending all this time alone i didn't go to my boyfriend's house till i was out of school and eighteen i am sorry but with this generation and every one before and after rushed feelings and all this alone time could end up into a you know what experience and believe i hope i am wrong and please prove me wrong and this is not what we want i am not against teens having babies GOD is the ONE WHO MAKES BABIES but let's agree it is hard for some to do and let us not allow all this alone time now if yall can be togehter and be pure GOD BLESS YOU CAUSE YOU ARE BETTER THAN ME and for those who think i am wrong i probably am so i will apolize in advance well thank you but for the rest of us let us not HAVE PREMARITAL SEX CAUSE IF YOU WANT TO KNOW A LOSS OF SELF RESPECT HURT AND PAIN AND ANGER THEN THIS IS THE ROAD SISTERS AND BROTHERS NO ONE CAN TOUCH THE FLAMES AND NOT GET BURNED NO ONE CAN WALK THE SLIPPERY SLOPE AND NOT FALL"
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