I want to, but I get so nervous and so shy!



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Hi there,

I'm a fifteen-year-old girl and my boyfriend will be turning seventeen this year. We've been going out for just over two months now.

Kissing is not really a problem for me. Yeah, we've french kissed and whatever already. He's touched me before, but not 'down there'.

See, I want to be intimate with him (just on the touchy side. Sex is way too far). But I get so shy when he, for example, unclips my bra. I got really nervous when he put his hand down the front of my pants the one time.

What can I do to get rid of the shy- and nervousness and feel more comfortable around my boyfriend?




User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
Too young?


Is she maybe not too young as to be offering herself up to her boyfriend? C'mon! Her letting him touch her at her...*cough*...personal area?

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