He wants sex with no strings
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I am 20 years old and I lost my Virginity to my guy friend who is also 20, He said that she only wants friends with privledges, but I was alright with that, but then I get all sad when he decides to date other women, then he goes back to me, I asked him whats wrong with me and why he doesn't want a relationship with me, and he said that there is nothing wrong with me and that he thinks I am a little needy, He always tells me that he wants to be single and have sex with no strings attached, and I said I understand, and he told me for some reason that he feels That i am connected to him. He always dates these girls who are single mothers and not as attractive as me. I am sorry I didn't want to sound rude. We talk all the time, and I want to be with him, and he always chooses to date and have relations with these other girls, and I have no idea why, He runs to the rescue for these girls but when I need help he doesn't help me, and he asked me to see my breasts on web cam 4 minutes before he wanted to see his gf, but they broke up now and he talks to me, I want to know what to do, how do I get him, or do I deserve better, or am I some type of freak that can't get love?
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
Hold each other
i have the same problem it sounds like he likes u but is also cunfused about what he wants but if u have fallin for him i wouldnt give up on him because if u do u may never know what could have been do u mess with other guys? if so he might not wont to go out with u because he doesnt trust u the guy i have really fallin for the guy that i have fwb with has confuses me so much about what he wants with me i'm here for him no matter what he has broken my heart so many times and he knows how i fill about him but it would never work out between us we r just a like we both like sex alot we dont trust each other and we both lie to eachother but it really doesnt matter that we cant date beacuse it is all worth it just to be able to hold him when i get the chance and he is lonley as well sometimes we just like to hold each other for awhile mabey since u cant date him u should enjoy the time u have with him and mabey one day he will relize that your right for him just dont be like me even though i love this guy i have done so many things to make him not trust me and he always finds out about it also he has tryed to change my ways but i have to do that myself i hoe u find this helpful
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