really worried, help
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
So I really like this guy haha of course
And Ever since the first day in that new school ive liked him
I walked in the door and he was the first person saw we made eye contact and he made my day. So we have made eye contact many many times
and ive never talked to him.
yesterday I decided to gather up the courage a
To talk to him online. he was the first to start the conversation. We talked for hours. Now the problem is that I have to talk to him in person but I'm scared to the point where I wish I had never talked to him. We are currentoy on spring break so i have 2 days to think and the thing is that im really shy specially around my crushes! I would really appreciate some tips on how to approach him to say hi and talk to him. And specially not to be nervous and make a fool of myself infront of him...thanks so much!!
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
Be a friend
ahmm... i'm just a kid, i don't have much to share any good idea to you, but i experienced this same situation once..
first i make sure that we'll became friend through simple and nice approach, guys like it thats why i did it.
having him as a friend is the best feeling i ever felt. he's my crush too you know, thats why i'm so glad of having him even just for a friend.
but when i told him my true feelings for him, everything change! i can't tell you the whole story but my advice to you, being true to yourself and to him by telling everything you feel is sometimes won't do any good coz some guys might take advantage of your niceness.
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