Is she or isn't she?
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Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
So my girlfriend and I have been together for 3 1/2 years. Things were great until March 2007. She went into this depression. Since then I have found out that in July 2007 she cheated with her ex, but stopped. Then in October 2007 she started "having feelings" for a friend of ours. We talked about everything and started over. Now, there is a guy that we are friends with that I think she is cheating with. She goes to his house all the time and forgets to tell me she is going. I love her more than anything and we have a house together as well as a son. She told me there is nothing between them but she acts all "giddy" when he calls or if she is around him. She told me she thinks he is attractive but she doesn't want to be with him. I think she is sleeping with him. Am I crazy and paranoid? She has told me she wants me and if she didn't then she would have moved out already. HELP!!!
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Male
Work problems out
Hey man, I have kinda the same problem. There were so many times when i wanted to call it quites. but i found out its better to work your problems out and if that doesnt work than leave her.
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