Wondering if it's right for me to want to still be closer to him
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Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
I'm facing a bit of a dilema here. i had been seening this awesome guy that totally rocked my world. While we were togeher we were the perfect soul mates (i belive) but due to long distance relationship we had to call it quits after 2 years of constant emails, photos, and instant messenger.
Here is where i dont know what to do...
We recently came into contact agian through a phone conversation and i couldn't have been happier, and from what he told me neither could he...
we talked for 3 hours and during those 3 hours he said that he missed me and that he thinks about me constantly...however, he also said that he has been seeing a girl and also mentioned how happy he currently is with his relationship. At the end of the conversation he told me he missed me...and i told him i missed him as well..
since then i cant stop thinking about him and i want to continue talking but i dont want to be intrusive in his relationship...any suggestions? Thanks so much for all your help!
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female
Stand your ground
I realy think u have to stand ur ground and b honest to urself and him. Im in a similer situation to only this time my man never has time 4 me. I think hes cheating on me. He comes to me at night of which i think hes embarressd bout me.
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