We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions.
Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female
Ok . I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year and 3 months. we have had a lot of hard times and a lot of good times as well. Lately we have been fighting a lot, but I just cant seem to let him go. Recently i have been talking to an old friend a bout my problems, and we have been growing closer and closer.i have found myself caring deeply for this person, and it is beginning to scare me, because he also has a girlfriend and I dont want him to hurt her. At the same time I dont want to hurt my boyfriend either. He told me that he is beginning to fall in love with me , and I believe I am doing the same. at the same time I believe I might be falling out of love with my current boyfriend. It kills me to say that but it kills me to see the other guy with his girlfriend, and pretend there is nothing between us.
what should I do.
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
this is my friend ur telling this to
that advice is dumb
you dont tell a girl that who has been with her boyfriend for almost a year and 3 months
thats like telling her to cheat and throw it all away
but i think someone else needs to give her advice and not george.
i also didnt think ur advice made since for me either.
so someone else can also reanswer my question.
under i want my ex back
called 3 guys and i dont know what to do.
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