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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I have been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half and I love him very very dearly. We dated for two weeks and then broke up for two weeks and have been together ever since. During the two weeks we were broken up I kissed another boy and didn't tell him for a few months, I also talked to my ex boyfriend. I am fully aware that it wasn't right, thats not what I need help with, I'm not in denial I know i was wrong. BUT he gave me a second chance but he's taking it back. He has become a bit controlling by making me feel guilty. He gets mad at me for everything and is always holding a grudge against me and doesn't trust me. This was over a year ago, and he's making it an issue now. I would have understood then, but it's soo hard to deal with now. He can't just "get over it" and I can't ask him to. Do you have any advice on how he can get past this? I need help or I need out, and I don't want out...
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Male
Tell him of love
I am going through the same thing me and my girl we were GREAT but she brought some other guy round and claimed he was like a brother but I felt lied to and stabbed in the back because I asked her did she have any male friends and she said no so I was hotttttt.... This dude continued to disrespect me time after time ya know by calling all the time I was around her and he would just pop up with no notice I was hotttt we argued and argued bout it but after time my heart healed from it and we were cool... tell him u really love him foreal look him into eyes tell him he is special have some meaning behind it
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