Boyfriend acting distant
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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female
Hi...my boyfriend has been acting distant around me lately, when i asked what was wrong he said nothing. but i knew something was wrong so then after he said that he asked ME what was wrong. i told him that he was being distant and he said it was because i broke up with him before (2 years ago!) and he wasnt sure if i was going to do it again. i've tried to convince him but he doesnt believe me. i do love him, but he doesnt trust me.
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
Hi, my boyfriend and I are on hold right at the moment, we broke up about a month ago. He calls me every other day just to see how im doing. He kinda says things to make me think tht he wants me back, but he never really say "I miss you". Just last week he asked me to come over to talk, but we didnt talk instead we had sex. After we had sex, he told me that he loved me. A week went by and I haven't heard from him. He finally calls and talks as if he misses me. What should I do? I really love him and I know he loves me he's just afraid to admit that he misses me. I don't want to continue this lovesick game. How can I tell if he really wants me back?
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