Not sure of her feelings or intentions
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Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Male
I have been seeing a girl for a little over two months and I really like her. Throughout the relationship, though, I have been unable to determine what her true feelings are for me. We spend time together frequently and sometimes it's great but other times she seems to be short with me and will snap at me at times. Intimacy seems to play only a small role at this point. sometimes when I initiate romance, she seems disintersted. Last week I took her out for a VERY nice dinner and i don't even remember her saying thank you and I didn't get so much as a kiss goodnight, although she stayed with me. I am very good to her and always let her know that I really like her. She has never really told me how she feels so I am just really confused. She stays in touch with text messages and such but I just get the feeling that she is settling. any advice?
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female
Best of luck
Coming from another girl, I say I hope you the best of luck. Now for my answers;
1. I think she may like you but she is nervous and is being shy.
2. Nothing is impossible. She may be using you(though I HIGHLY doubt it...). I wouldn't know why because frankly, I don't realy get mean girls. Maybe she is more the romantic type. Maybe you aren't giving her what she wants. Some girls like romance or sex, and others like a "I love him very much..yadda yadda yadda..." relationship when they don't know what they are missing out on.
Maybe she doesn't like you!
Best of luck!
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