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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I am 18years old and i have been dateing the same guy for 2 years he is the love of my life and i know that. but i want to have other boyfriends untill i am ready for that commitment. So we broke up, i want you to help me so i can keep him close as my friend, not lose contact, while i date other guys. I dont want him to stop loveing me i know i wont. Please help
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female
Plain and simple, let him go. If u WANT to date other guys then u dont "truely" love him. Your still very young yet and have ur whole life to go yet, ull meet many people, fall in and out of love, get hurt and hurt, but when u finally do find "true" love ull know it because that person will be everything to u and u wont ever want to be with anyone else. And if u broke his heart its not right to wait a month or any amount of time while ur out there livin it up with other guys then go back to him and expect him to want to b with u. Theres an old saying that goes something like "U want 2 have ur cake and eat it to" Either u truely love this guy and want to be with him or u want to be with other guys, go on with ur life and let him go on with his, make an effort to stay friends if u can, so u dont lose touch but DONT say "we can still be friends", most people u break up with hate hearing those words. just be honest with ur feelings and see what happens. most people hate hearing this. if in the end, fate finds u together again then give it all uve got this time cause maybe its meant to be.
Good Luck and Blessed Be
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