Choosing between Two Guys
We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions.
Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female
Hi. Im a girl in high school and i love 2 guys. Ive been through pain, and hurt, and ive been through love. I know what it feels like to be treated like a princess, and treated like a beggar. i know that i am in love, the problem is it is with two guys. my feelings for them are so strong. one i never can see because he is constantly in different places, the other is at my school but he is always working. one loves me in return, we feel the same way for each other, but he roams from place to place that i never can see him. and they other just calls me from time to time, but he was in an arts class with me and i sat with him and i fell in love.
i do not know what to do. here are two great men, whom i both love, and the reality of it is that i may only choose one. and its so hard, because i will get my heart broken either way, or i could be making the wrong decision and lose the greatest guy ever. now i know that there are millions of other guys out there, but i live everyday as if it were my last. if i dont seize the moment, then i will never know if i will love again. please help me in my decision. i dont want to screw up. thank you
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
Oh my god! Your in the EXACT same problem im in. I'm in high school too and I really like two guys, except for i'm going out with one of them, but i really like this guy that lives about 45 minutes away...im not the cheating type...and it hurts me and tears me up inside to keep this going. I know that they BOTH REALLY LIKE ME, both of them said I love you to me...what do I do?? , you are so right I don't wanna make a wrong desicion either and end up losing the the love of my life...my parents think that I'm too young to love but I have gone through pain and love just as you have...and I feel like I'm just about ready to give up...If you have an answer ...please tell me...
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