He Won't Ask Me Out
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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female
I like this guy and he likes me too, but he won't ask me out. We flirt all the time, and he still won't make his move. Why is that? Is that even normal?
User Submitted Advice from a 31-40 year old Male
Guys have been mercilessly slaughtered with rejection since the dawn of time. We're pigs, x-box fanactics, uncaring, unattentive...yada, yada, yada. We don't read women or in your case, girls very well. It goes back to the no means no rule...if we are hot under the covers and the woman says no, suddenly we've read them wrong once again. Guess what? You fought for equality, its your turn to face the prospect of rejection...you (and your female counter parts) created the way men react to flirting, body language, etc. Now deal with it.
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