Talking to my Crush
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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Male
I really have a desparate crush on this girl whos in my school, two years younger than me, . The only problem is when I was trying to get close to her by talking to her freinds on Im and such and sometimes in school. I havn't actually exanged more than a few words in conversation with the girl I actually like but I think she's not really talking to cos she thinks i like her freinds. It's still just a suspicion though, im not sure wether it's that or she's just not interested.
I havn't got her IM address yet, but I have told her friends that I like her and they have kinda refused to give an opinoin. Does this mean there keeping a promised secret for their freind, not to tell me that she liked me or are they all silently thinking 'oh my, he doesn't stand a chance with her, better not hurt his feelings though'
I just don't know what to think or do, please help me :(
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Male
If you like this girl, tell her yourself. That's the only way you'll know for sure if she likes you or not.
Maybe her friends like you themselves, or something.
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