I Blew Him Off - Now I Like Him and He's Moved On
We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions.
Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female
i have had strong feelings for this guy for about 5 months now. He felt for me for the last two years, and i blew him off only to realize now that he is the guy i wanna get to know better. He liked me some of this year when i liked him as well, however soon after he asked out another girl.
I know that he has feelings for me, i dont know how i know but somehow i since it. Just the little things that he does i can tell. We are in different groups in school and maybe that has a factor to do with it. Im not sure, but i am so heartbroken, and i dont know what to do! Any advice, or support would be great. Thank you
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female
It would not be sensible to try and break them up. It will cause problems, and he may resent you for it.
There's an old saying that goes "Everyone finds their own wavelength".
Just be his friend, for now, but don't give up on other guys.
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