What can I do now?
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I've known this guy for a while, we had been getting on really well and decided to meet up. We kissed and I told him I liked him, and I think he likes me too.
The problem is that he's just got out of a 6 month relationship and he told me he wasn't ready for anything else just yet. He told me he was confused about all this relationship stuff and needed time to get over his ex girlfriend.
I've fallen for this guy and I want things to work, and he's told me he just wants to be friends for the time being and that something might happen in the future but he also told me not to count on it. I also asked him if he was just letting me down gently and he said no.
How long do you think I should wait for him? And what can I talk to him about now? Cos it's gone kinda awkward and I dunno what to say. Please help.
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
Wait a month
you should wait one month and if it is still distence there nothings left to say hes probably still in to this girl you shouldn't think about him like that anymore but you should be his friend still and support his desision even if its a bad one
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