it went well for about three to five weeks until we slept together

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okay i'm 17 and i started this new job, and like my fourth day there i gave this guy my phone number and it went well for about three to five weeks until we sleep together. i mean every one knew we were together and he told me he wanted to be with me until i told him that we should take a break on the sexually intercourse thing but its been a hole month that we agreed on we would take but know he hasn't call and when we work together the only thing he does is remind me that a month is all most up. do you think that he wants to be with me or he just wanted to sleep with me he says were still together but it don't seem like it.

User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female

Honestly, sex is not a bad thing it is intimance between two people maybe he wants to feel the intimance again. You see "most guys" not all pretty much just wants sex but the fact that he wants to be with you and have those feelings is a good thing.

Once the month is up have sex with him and see how that goes..if the relationship does not change then move on the only bad part is that you two work together but there are always other options. Just see where it goes and if you dont like it then talk to him and tell him how you feel. If he does not respect you and your feelings then leave him and find someone better for you.


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