Difficult Situation

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Original Visitor's Question from a 41-50 year old Male
It's a difficult situation. I started dating this girl, but all of a sudden she just wanted to be friends. We both are attracted to each other but she is having trouble with an ex-husband and an ex-boy friend who won't leave her alone and kind of pushed her to want us be just friends. She loves having me around, but those two guys made it worse for me to keep the relationship healthy. I want to know how I can get her to come closer to me and show more love and feelings that I know she is hiding from me.

User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female

Just Friends,

Look, I have been in that type of situation before with ex-boyfriends and pretty much them stalking me. Most likely what she is doing is trying to keep you from getting hurt. As you are just friends they would not even think about starting anything with you. While you are in a relationship with her then it is fair game. Just wait when she is ready she will come back to you.

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