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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
okay so there is this guy he's one of my friends. And I know he likes me because he told my best friend, who told me! he calls me every night but, i rarely ever pick up. He talks about me all the time and he want's to ask me out. but the thing is he doesn't know that i know all of this. and the worse part is i don't feel the same way about him. So i wan't to let him know that i just want to be friends without hurting him is that even possible. Considering he doesn't know, that i all ready know he is going to ask me out. so is there even anything i can say that would help?? I mean i all ready tried the calling him friend and saying he's a great FRIEND but i don't think he gets it....
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
i see where u comin from becuz the same happen to me but besides that if i was u i call him over or discuss over the phone and let him really know how u i'm feeling about him my example: i wanted to talk about me, you i understand the way you feel about me but i want u to know i love u very much but as i friend i never really thought about me and you & that way and i'm not saying this to hurt ur feeling becuz i wouldnt want anyone doin me the same but i will like to just friends and nothing more and i hope u wouldn't mine. then u know yall may discuss more sorry cant say more becuz i have to go but trust i'll be back and my advice!
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