love and cheat
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Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
I live in a country where the idea of the girl sleeping with a man or even kissing him before engagement or marriage is unacceptable. People are closed minded, even men, they consider a girl who they kissed as a bitch and they don't respect her or think about marrying her. So i'm not allowed to kiss my boyfriend or let him do this because then he will not respect me.
Anyway, i created a different email account and i started chatting with my boyfriend as if i'm some other girl, and what i knew was horrible. I knew that he picks girls from the internet and have fun with them, ( have sex) online or on the phone, and i also knew that he would go sleep with a girl only to satisfy his desires if he could but he didn't do it yet. However, he said that he has a girl friend ( me) who he is not willing to play with her feelings for sex because he loves her and her respects her.
Still he lies to me, he could be having a dirty chat with a girl and tell me he is doing something else like playing video games. My question is , is it possible that a man loves a girl and cheats on her like this?? Maybe it's a man thing and i dunno it
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
hi, I've been with my guy for six years im know turning 18, trust issues just start to develope after the fifth year like: dating websites online,argumentative situations,and having female friends without bringing it to my attention.He say he loves me. perhaps,be with me until we grow old but,when we fight he tells me that Ican do whatEVER I want without him caring then he say im sorry after fortyfive minutes of silence.
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