what do i do
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
ive liked this girl for a very long time and shes liked me for just as long. at first everything was going great but then i started hearing stuff from her friends that she would ruin my life and stuff like that. well i ended up listening tp them and made the mistake of blowing her off and ignoring her but i never did stop liking her. a few weeks ago we started talking ago and i told her that i still liked her and then she told me that she still liked me too. we hung out a lot like normal and then she started acting weird like she was annoyed by me and so i asked what was up and she didnt really say anything about it. a week passed and we got into an argument about what was going on between us and i asked her if there was any chance of us.. and she used the "what goes around comes around" thing on me and asked why she should give me a chance after what i did.. i told her i was sorry about all that and regreted it days after i did it but she said something about if i was sorry i shouldnt have done it in the first place.. so waht i guess im asking is, is there anyway i can get her to forgive me and go back to how we were?
User Submitted Advice from a 31-40 year old Female
Here's what I think. She's drawn her blood and gotten even, which is kinda childish. If you still want to be with her, go see if she's still interested. Tell her that now that she's had her revenge, you're still genuinely interested.
Understand that you're risking total humiliation because she may still be "out for blood".
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