We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions.
Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
I have been married for 2 years and I am very unhappy, my husband has a very foul mouth, he is very selfish and thinks only of himself, he refuses to help me with our three kids, he is obsessed with porn, well he has a friend that he has been friends with for years and he comes to our house alot he is single, well I am interested in him, and I kind of get the same feeling from him, but I am not for sure. It is the way he looks at me, like when we are talking and sometimes when we are not he looks me straight in the eye and smiles and I am usually the one to look away first and there has been a couple times that our eyes have met and I instantly felt something between us. But my question is, Do you think he feels the same and should I let him know how I feel, or Should I not pursue this, I am ready to leave my husband either way. But as far as this man is concerned I am not sure what to do about him. I want to tell him before he gets away.
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female
I dont mean to be rude but if you think your husband is so bad and foul then whats to say the man he hangs around with isnt the same, i mean they are friends they have to have something in common, I think you should finish with your hubby but dont jump the boat for this other guy as yet, let things cool for awhile and see where it leads,.
for ur kids sake anyway.
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