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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Hello, it's me again...Well the girl who is my co-worker whom I cannot get out of my head..she is everything to me..I cannot see myself without her in my life as more than a friend...we have been hanging out allot at movies and all...she is 3 years older than me and I've been helping her with her college things...now I'm in love with her and I want to ask her out..but I'm not sure is she feels the same way as I do. I've read up on many things and I cannot tell is she likes me as well...I'm really nervous about our 3 year age difference..we like almost all the same things and we talk allot, just she's going to college VERY soon and I want to express myself to her very soon but I don't want to loose her..she is my world. Please...help me to determine what to do.
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Male
Build up courage
Ohhh Man, alrght this is very serious, but 1st does any one knows how to sign up here i wanna give ppl advice even if im not well good, alrght lets see prove to her u can be worthy of her, and George had the rght to say build up ur courage, u should 4get abou the age difference, this is very tough she is leavin, u r runnin out of time, n u worry abou da age differ.
she is leavin 4 college, u must be able to keep in contact with her, im juz sayin this if u have not build up da courage, if this college is far try n move near her, this shows u have affection for her, but u must build the courage fast b4 she findz some1 in da college i see this alot so hurry!!by the way im 14 n a guy
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