I am falling in love with a guy that is in a relationship with someone else?
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Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
I am in love with a guy that live in the same state as i do.The problem is he is with someone else in another state. This person is the mother of his last child. He claim he love me and don't love her but i honestly don't know what to believe. Then i really wouldn't like for him to hurt his family.I don't know what i should? Should i continue this relation or let it go before it goes any further? I am so afraid of getting hurt that i don't know if i should run. He keep telling me that he is staying with her because he have to get to know me better and he don't want to just leave her yet.
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Male
Tell the mother
Well I'm a 14 year old dude, but I don't really know if I could help but, I would say that you should tell the mother of his last child about what had been going on, but there are some things that will might happen, either you are torn apart by that woman, or this man is, but you will be left alone so you must find some one who doesn't have any secret going on with him or wives child and ect.
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