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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
i wanna tell this girl i like her but i dont if i can. she is my best friend but i had feelins 4 her since the day we met and they only gotten stronger. i told her once i like her and she avoid me cauz she thought i would bug her. but i prove her wrong and were best friend. but i still like her more then a freind. she kinda likes another and he likes her, they arent goin out but they like each other. somethings when were together i want2 tell her but i force myself not 2 but sometimes i wish i can. but im not sure if shes even worth it cuaz i have all year likin her and tryin 2 get close but im still stuck in friends zone. i tried countless time 2 get ova her 2 like goin out w/ another or likin another or w/e but none of it wrks. i just like her 2 much. wat should i do? should i tell her, wait give up or wat?
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
Life is too short
well i experience the same thing with my bestfriend George and yes it is hard, everything you said is the exact same of my feelings. When I finally decided to tell her she blew it off like nothing was ever said and we haven't talked about it since, but it still stays on my mind.I even dated other people to take my mind off of it and it has helped in some way but i still could be better. I say you just have to learn to move on because you are only damaging yourself emotionally, as i did, but we are different persons, so who knows follow your heart and what happens in life happens, life is too short to worry yourself.
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