People tell me that you never completely get over your first crush
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Okay, I used to like this guy at school. I had a major crush on him for about a year but nothing came of it. As a matter of fact, he kind of started acting like a jerk this summer. For a while, I thought that he liked me, too, but now I know that he does not like me as anything more than a friend. I have started going out with another guy who is so sweet to me, he tells me that I am beautiful and that he loves me more than any other girl he has ever gone out with. I love him, too but yesterday I went to a school function and saw the guy I had the crush on. I realized that I have a small amount of feelings left for this guy and now I am confused. If I really care for my boyfriend, how can I still have lingering feelings for the other guy? I don't want to go out with the other guy because I really do care for my boyfriend but I am not sure if I am completely over the first crush. People tell me that you never completely get over your first crush. Is that true? Is it normal to still have a small amount of feelings for that guy?
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
Don't make same mistake
move on its not wroth u loosing a good working relationship
for a crush who told u he liked u as a friend not as anything else special. been there done that and it didnt work out at all. so i beg u not to make the same mistake as me.
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