In love with counselor
We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions.
Original Visitor's Question from a 41-50 year old Female
where do i start.i have anumber of falled relationships with men.im a 35 yr old woman i was recently in a relationship for 18 months wich had its problems.we went for councelling wich in the short term did help but over a period of seeing my councellor i started to develope very strong feelings for him.i split with my partner and then went back in to councelling alone.to cut a long sory short i am in love with my councellor and the other week he admitted he had the same feelings for me.may i add he is married and says although he isnt happy he could never leave his wife as he cant hurt her.im so confused i want more than anything to be with this man but is this typical married man not happy?i know this is wrong but im bloody cracking up here after years of crap i finally beleive with all my heart i have found my soul mate.probably niave of me eh.if u truly love someone what the hell do you do
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female
He is married, this stands to reason, why would you do it?
Because your lonely, thats not fair.
Imagine you were married, now imagine someone taking that away from you, he might not be happy in his marrage but I dont think you should be getting involved. Couples have their ups and downs and you happened to be there on his downs.
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