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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
i wanna tell this girl i like her but i dont if i can. she is my best friend but i had feelins 4 her since the day we met and they only gotten stronger. i told her once i like her and she avoid me cauz she thought i would bug her. but i prove her wrong and were best friend. but i still like her more then a freind. she kinda likes another and he likes her, they arent goin out but they like each other. somethings when were together i want2 tell her but i force myself not 2 but sometimes i wish i can. but im not sure if shes even worth it cuaz i have all year likin her and tryin 2 get close but im still stuck in friends zone. i tried countless time 2 get ova her 2 like goin out w/ another or likin another or w/e but none of it wrks. i just like her 2 much. wat should i do? should i tell her, wait give up or wat?
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
ask her out
If you really like her as you say you do. You should ask her out before the other guy asks her. Because if he asks her out,you are the one that's going to feel bad.I know that you might be asking yourself, "What if she doesn't like me?". Let me tell you something that "what if?" its always going to stay with you. In the moment that the other guy asks her out you are going to start thinking. "what if she did like me and I never ask her out?" "what if this?" "what if that?". So just go for it. I know that she is a good friend of yours, but just tell her how you feel and ask her if she wants to go somewhere with you and then that's a wherever you take her would be a good place to ask her out. If she doens't want to go with you or says no when you ask her out,just ask her if you can continue being her friend!!! OH sorry if i wrote all this, but i like to give advice and i just wanted to tell you what you can do.
Good luck and sorry again=]!!
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