I Want to Ask Him Out - He Has a Girlfriend
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
We have known eachother for 2 years. We go 2 the same school. And I flirt with him all the time at lunch. He flirts back. I have dreams about him and i cry sometimes 2 know that were not going out.
I have considered asking him out but i'm scared of what he will say. Plus rumors might spread around the school. I like him alot!! But the school year is almost over. I want 2 ask him out but I always thought that chicks don't ask out guys. I know he likes me cause he called me his monkey in the middle. Plus last year when I was in his class we would hang out in the field and it seemed like one time he tried to hold my hand.
My friends don't like him so i'm scared i'll loose friends if I go out with him. Everyday at school I wait 4 him 2 ask me out. But he doesn't. The big problem is that he has a GIRLFRIEND!!! He would break up with her 4 me I know but the and normally that would b ok but it is my best friend. What would I do. So how do I ask him out.
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female
Dont do anything !
First of all you could ruin your "relationship" as it is
with him. Dont you want to be able to talk to him? If you ask him out he might not talk to you and thats worse seeing as you obviously really like him.
The fact that he has a girlfriend is a big no no ..
would you like somebody to ask your boyfriend out even though they knew you were with them? Be his friend for now and wait, you will never know what might happen, they could break up...
Plus you need your friends right now, remember boyfriends are for awhile , friends are forever...
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